Ask anyone about their most disastrous date and you’ll
find that it usually was on the first date. Now, imagine all
the things that could go wrong on your first date with an Asian
mail order bride—spilling noodles on your lap while
fumbling with the chopsticks, getting slapped in the face
after attempting to jump to “second base” too quickly, or
boring her to tears by talking incessantly about yourself. Add
language and cultural differences into the mix and you’ve got
yourself a recipe for an Asian mail order
bride disaster. Sounds scary, doesn’t it? Well, maybe, but
the rewards are so great that men risk ruined reputations and
egos just to spend precious moments with their beloved Asian
brides. Here are several tips that may help you dodge the
pitfalls of Asian bride
dating.
Show up early for your date with your Asian
mail order bride
Whether you are meeting an Asian mail order
bride at her house or meeting at a mutually convenient
place, you can be sure to disarm her instantly if you turn up
early for the date with your Asian bride. Sure,
you can just choose to get there on time, but you won’t earn
extra points for that. Arriving early for your date is one way
to show your Asian bride that
you are excited about spending time with her and couldn’t wait
to enjoy her company. Unless you have a very valid reason
(your car broke down and you were mugged by pantyhose-masked
men), do not arrive late.
Compliment your Asian mail order
bride on how great she looks
You’re not the only one who tried out five different
outfits before deciding on what to wear for your Asian
mail order bride date. Chances are, your Asian
bride rummaged through hundreds of apparel racks and
polled her friends in order to find the perfect dress for the
first date. Make your Asian bride swoon
by telling her how lucky you are to be dating the most
beautiful Asian lady you’ve
ever seen. Pay attention to details of your Asian lady’s outfit
that other guys would normally overlook, such as a matching
necklace or a charming bracelet.
Treat your Asian bride like a
lady
Chivalry lives on in the hearts and imagination of these
gentle, conservative Asian brides. Open
the doors for her. Pull up a chair for her. When you go for a
walk, offer your arm to your Asian bride.
Asian
brides have had enough of living in patriarchal societies
where men expect to be served hand and foot. Your Asian
mail order bride will surely be swept off her feet if you
show her that a thoughtful gentleman like you still exists in
this cynical world.
Do something that would indulge your common
interests
Do you and your special Asian lady have a
passion for the great outdoors? Try picnicking at a local
park, or visit quaint, little-known destinations in your Asian
lady’s hometown. Are sports a shared passion? Go swimming,
water-skiing, or mountain hiking. As much as possible, resist
the dinner-and-a-movie routine. Your date with your
Asian
bride should be used an opportunity for you to get to know
each other more, and watching a movie takes away from this
time.
Sample the local cuisine
Ditch the Big Mac and the T-bone steak. Explore culinary
delights offered by your Asian mail order
bride’s country. And while you’re tickling your taste
buds, ask your Asian mail order
bride about her favorite comfort foods or convince her to
share her favorite recipe for chicken adobo. Be careful not to
go overboard. If the idea of biting into a half-boiled,
ready-to-hatch duck egg or chilly-barbecued chicken feet makes
you feel queasy, try other less exotic dishes.
Shut up and listen to what your Asian
mail order bride has to say
See the glazed, spaced-out look in your Asian lady’s eyes?
That’s the look of utter boredom, caused by your constant
yakking about yourself—your job, your car, your
ex-girlfriends…Nothing kills your chances of having a
follow-up date with your Asian bride more
than acting like a self-absorbed jerk. Show genuine interest
in what your Asian mail order
bride has to say. Ask her about her family, her friends,
and her first pet. Never inquire about her job unless she
herself initiates a conversation about it.
Tell your Asian bride what a
great time you’re having
Your Asian bride may be
constantly worrying about how you feel the date is turning
out. Assuring your Asian mail order
bride that you are having the time of your life is one
effective way to put her at ease. The more comfortable your Asian
bride feels in your company, the more she will warm up to
you and feel confident about herself.
Call your Asian mail order
bride soon after the date
Time was when a guy said, “I’ll call you,” he would really
give his date a ring. Asian brides long
for a guy who still belongs to that era. Never play the
waiting game with Asian brides. They
are tired of men who trick them with false promises or lead
them on a cat-and-mouse game. Don’t be coy! Call your Asian
bride to say how much you enjoyed her company and that you
cannot wait you see her again. And wipe that stupid grin off
your face when you hear your Asian bride gush
about your next date.
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